Qubit Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 (edited) So tomorrow is the day we sign bids. Tomorrow I will decide a path that I will most likely be taking for the rest of college. I decide what fraternity I will pledge. But the problem is im split. I have no clue what to choose. When I decide on one, I think about the other.. So I've come to you guys to get your opinions. Fraternity A: None to be the wildest guys on campus. They party the hardest every weekend and are the stereotypical frat bros you see and hear about. l They are some rowdy dudes. They get the most girls and throw down the hardest and most often. I started rushing there after a brother sought me out and started messaging me to come to house and chill. He hooked me up and was a real guy and got me a bid. The house had a lot of ROTC guys and I don't really get along with them in a sense that I can't hold a conversation with them. They are really chill dudes and all the "cool" dudes join the frat. Their hazing is also worse Fraternity B: These guys party too but are more laid back and chill. They party hard but not as often and hard at Fraternity A. They don't really have a stereotype besides being athletes who played sports in high school but quit in college, which I am. They are the chilliest dudes and I can talk to practically anyone of them whenever I want. They have a big house which was an apartment building that was refurnished. They have a bunch of common rooms too and a cool room with billiards, darts, and xbox. I think I fit in this fraternity more with this fraternity. Why im currently choosing Fraternity A. Im a bit antisocial so I know the Frat will shape me into to them and a more social person. They have more connections, and i would feel like a douche if i didn't accept the bid when the brother stuck his head out for me. Explanations Pleasee... UPDATE: I pledged fraternity B.. two days in I can already tell im going to hate it. They aren't at all what they were like during rush. It is horrible. It had been 3 days since I signed my bid for them and I 100% regret it. They aren't as close as they seem. They are always drunk. The house is a complete mess now. They are always drunk did I say that already? It looks like theirs a lot of fighting between the brothers. I joined them for the reason that they were chill and threw down when they needed to. I joined them for the reason that they were chill and threw down when they needed to, they were a clean house and chill. But now that I see their true colors I hate myself now for choosing them. If I wanted to party all the time. I would have chosen frat A being I can deal with them when they are drunk. I partied with them during rush and they didn't hide their true selves. The house it actually clean. I met all the brothers. Did I also mention frat B has a bunch of weird brothers who I didn't meet during rush because they stayed in their rooms the whole time. I don't know what to do... I wish I could go back 3 days and tear up that bid. Looks like my housing is going to be fucked next year... And ill have to re rush. I don't know how im going to break it to them I don't want to pledge them. Edited December 6, 2015 by Qubit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muffins Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Frat B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANIMA VESTRA Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Frat B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volta Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Frat none fajit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectPact Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I'm in Pi Kappa Alpha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genii Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 The one where your bros are chill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NayBely Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 You stated it yourself B is more for you, go for B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoEasyLmNew Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Pick the one you enjoy hanging with the most. Sounds like fraternity B, and you can talk to them easier you said so that will help your social skills. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
