joniassassin Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 I'm in love with this girl, but i couldn't contain myself... when i love a girl, i legit act as a desperate person... so yet again i fucked up everything putting tons of pressure into something; I'm feeling so bad, she is such a cool person... we were getting to know each other better, and i threw an idiotic poem for her, and basically its all gone... fk me lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muffins Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 youre posting this on a runescape botting website seek professional help 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Sorry to see that you have such a hard time, however don't listen to the above. You are allowed to express yourself where you feel comfortable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joniassassin Posted January 28, 2019 Author Share Posted January 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, Muffins said: youre posting this on a runescape botting website seek professional help Im just opening myself...and the fact that this has nothing to do with my personal life actually helps a lot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greengo Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 1 minute ago, joniassassin said: Im just opening myself...and the fact that this has nothing to do with my personal life actually helps a lot nothing like working hard on a account and getting it banned to forget about things 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hope Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Sure about that? I think writing a poem for her is pretty cute lol, did she not appreciate it at all? Or was it some kind of modern bullshit gucci gang type shit lol? One thing is, a lot of guys mis-read signs and feel that because they like a girl that she has to like them back, eventually, if they put the work in but sometimes it isn't like that. Way I see it, girls/women are normal human beings as well. Sometimes they are looking for someone other times not, just treat them like normal and be yourself. Even if you did rush into the poem if yall were getting to know each other she would appreciate it. Pretty sure she told you to slow down/rejected your approach because it was so sudden and you didn't wait for her feelings to develop. Not going to give you false hope but when I was a kid I managed to salvage a screw-up like that once. Just need to be normal, be yourself and she'll come around (if she feels the same way). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Just now, joniassassin said: Im just opening myself...and the fact that this has nothing to do with my personal life actually helps a lot Speaking as someone who is most probably older, you slowly learn to cope under the difference when you like someone. You are just expressing yourself, that isn't a bad thing although not always the best example to set. A lot of girls are attracted to similar thing, but also different things so I would wait and see what happens next, maybe she liked the stuff you did maybe she didn't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muffins Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 1 minute ago, joniassassin said: Im just opening myself...and the fact that this has nothing to do with my personal life actually helps a lot thats literally what professional help is for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Just now, Hope said: Sure about that? I think writing a poem for her is pretty cute lol, did she not appreciate it at all? Or was it some kind of modern bullshit gucci gang type shit lol? One thing is, a lot of guys mis-read signs and feel that because they like a girl that she has to like them back, eventually, if they put the work in but sometimes it isn't like that. Way I see it, girls/women are normal human beings as well. Sometimes they are looking for someone other times not, just treat them like normal and be yourself. Even if you did rush into the poem if yall were getting to know each other she would appreciate it. Pretty sure she told you to slow down/rejected your approach because it was so sudden and you didn't wait for her feelings to develop. Not going to give you false hope but when I was a kid I managed to salvage a screw-up like that once. Just need to be normal, be yourself and she'll come around (if she feels the same way). So much easier when you're a younger generation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juggles Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 I think @Antonio Kala can offer you some advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Just now, Muffins said: thats literally what professional help is for It is, but maybe he is just offloading somewhere he feels comfortable. You don't need "professional assistance" to generally speak out about something That's like me posting up a status on Facebook and saying "oh I had eggs for breakfast", doesn't mean I need professional help, as many other people would be having/already had similar. I understand it's not the right place to post completely, but also not the wrong place either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hope Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Just now, Dbuffed said: So much easier when you're a younger generation. Haha it's just understanding brotha xD When I learned that women are human beings and have their own feelings and I need to approach differently it completely changed the game. But I agree it's much easier now. Can't imagine what it must've been like for you courting a gal you like back in the middle ages xDDD 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Just now, Hope said: Haha it's just understanding brotha xD When I learned that women are human beings and have their own feelings and I need to approach differently it completely changed the game. But I agree it's much easier now. Can't imagine what it must've been like for you courting a gal you like back in the middle ages xDDD We used to hunt for fish and deer, pick berries and paint funny drawings on walls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Maldesto Posted January 28, 2019 Administrator Share Posted January 28, 2019 Next time, write the poem, but don't give it to her. Save it for 1 year, give it to her on the one year anniversary 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ringeman Posted January 28, 2019 Share Posted January 28, 2019 Everyone has their date share of girl problems I guess haha 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
