Drewyboyo Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 (edited) leave if you're just gonna make retarded memes and shit like that im not looking for sympathy hi i have really self destructive habits and harm and shit like that and i dont want to involve my mom with talking to a professional, are counselors and therapist of the sort actually worth talking to if anyone has experience and does anyone also have any experience with things like prescribed xanax and shit of the sort thx idk what to do and im gonna leave details out of it to not make it edgy and gay xo edit : i dont have any other community to turn to rly so thats why i posted this here xd and can't really talk to highschool friends abt this Edited October 23, 2017 by Drewyboyo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Talk to a professional and you decide if it helped you. OT: Xans gon take you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jesenican Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 go to gym,,go more outside with friends, get laid... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drewyboyo Posted October 23, 2017 Author Share Posted October 23, 2017 Just now, jesenican said: go to gym,,go more outside with friends, get laid... i literally go out 2 hours a day afterschool and eat lunch or see a movie not gonna talk to you abt my sex life either on a fucking runescape forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jammer Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 I don't know how bad it is but it sounds like you should go and see one. It won't get worse anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jesenican Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 1 minute ago, Drewyboyo said: i literally go out 2 hours a day afterschool and eat lunch or see a movie not gonna talk to you abt my sex life either on a fucking runescape forum no need aint asking just telling what helps me <.< sex is life. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PerryThePlatypus Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Don't be afraid to ask for help. It doesn't make you weak, it makes you human. If you think you need help, you more than likely do and surely your family/friends could understand that. Keep your head up, fam. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uta Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 To be honest this is not the best place to get advice about your mental health or any sort of problems you have , i dont have any personal experience with therapist etc . but it never hurts to try Goodluck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spectre Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Try to stay off any drugs and alcohol if you do any of the sort. Get exercise, set goals, keep yourself busy. I'm kinda going through something of the same sort. Surround yourself with positive people. Experiment with music and get good sleep. Just some ways to get past feeling depressed, sad and angry. Life sucks sometimes, but you're the only one who has the power to change that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theminis Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 16 minutes ago, Drewyboyo said: i literally go out 2 hours a day afterschool and eat lunch or see a movie not gonna talk to you abt my sex life either on a fucking runescape forum Get that stick out of your ass for starters. That's EXACTLY where you should be sharing your sex life, as nobody knows you or will ever know you here; especially if it helps you with the issue you're presenting here. And it does. Greatly. Seek a therapist that won't be just squeezing money out of you instead of actually helping you (some might do both). Recognize it when you talk to him/her, you should be smart enough. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drewyboyo Posted October 23, 2017 Author Share Posted October 23, 2017 2 minutes ago, Theminis said: Get that stick out of your ass for starters. That's EXACTLY where you should be sharing your sex life, as nobody knows you or will ever know you here; especially if it helps you with the issue you're presenting here. And it does. Greatly. Seek a therapist that won't be just squeezing money out of you instead of actually helping you (some might do both). Recognize it when you talk to him/her, you should be smart enough. i expect a sex life thread now 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mio Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Seek help, your school may provide therapists that you can see during your school day (assuming you're in high school). Speak to your guidance counselor if you're interested and see what they offer. I saw one through highschool and I still keep in touch. Your health insurance should cover sessions. You may have to get a parent involved for this, but it's a good option to seek out. And don't touch benzos, things like xanax and klonopin won't help you, they'll help you temporarily and you'll just become addicted and reliant on them. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anomaly Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 48 minutes ago, Drewyboyo said: leave if you're just gonna make retarded memes and shit like that im not looking for sympathy hi i have really self destructive habits and harm and shit like that and i dont want to involve my mom with talking to a professional, are counselors and therapist of the sort actually worth talking to if anyone has experience and does anyone also have any experience with things like prescribed xanax and shit of the sort thx idk what to do and im gonna leave details out of it to not make it edgy and gay xo edit : i dont have any other community to turn to rly so thats why i posted this here xd and can't really talk to highschool friends abt this I had the same thing, basically you want to work for something. Have something to wake up for that you value. A hobby, a girl, a sport. Something that makes you happy. TRAVELING (big one) I've seen girls I date not have this drive and it causes depression. I believe it's ultimately a process of finding yourself. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doemorustig Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 (edited) Exactly what Anomaly said, you need to have something that keeps you going. Something to look forward to. I had something like you, I literally hated my life, was doing shit at school, didn't have a job, nothing to do when i got out of school, ... Since then I've met someone and she changed everything by making me look forward to stuff. And in my case it's also travelling. I wasn't much of a traveller before but she really got me into it. As of now I have a trip with her planned to look forward to. It took me forever to find her but it will happen. Just give it time and don't give up! Edited October 23, 2017 by doemorustig Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alek Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 It sounds like an issue within your control, and you have a support network of friends and family. Unless you are being abused (if you are then get help), then try and find some hobbies that challenge you. Programming, carpentry, gardening, art, cars, etc. Being occupied will give you a sense of purpose, which is important for people that are still developing. If you tried or are still having issues after that, then I'd seek some professional help. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
