If she did say, "go ask your mother", then clearly she's being ignorant because she is the mother. She can say "go ask your other mom", because there's no father figure in this lesbian relationship. Go ask your mother is a little flawed.
First of all you need to understand when buying an account it's not yours - stop being lazy and make your own acc
Secondly always pay via PayPal and get paid via something else. Still can be PayPal. Ironhide has a guide. If you srs want details I can help.
This is your new osbot bible, follow it.