The Undefeated Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 (edited) Since a month (when school started for me) I'm losing all my motivation to do anything. The only moments I really do stuff is when I feel like I have to for myself or others (going to school, getting groceries) or when I get instant satisfaction (for example gaming or making private scripts, because those will pay instantly). I even skipped my gym session this morning which I have never done. I'm not doing any homework, not much scripting, not doing anything for my other businesses, no motivation to unpack the dishwasher (which takes 5 min), and not even the motivation to take a shower unless I really need to (Still showering 3-4 times a week). I'm scared I will even screw up more than I do right now but I don't know how to "solve" it. How do you guys stay motivated? Edited September 30, 2017 by The Undefeated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rxd Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Realize that you're apart of something bigger and the motivation will sink into you. Associate yourself with something you take pride in and excel. ( I cant tell you what you like, or what you want to be. The fun part is you figuring that out) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mordred Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Welcome to the club, got a rope if you need one, 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theminis Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 I stop smoking grass when I want to feel motivated. It's pretty simple now actually. I'm an hourly user basically (if that could even be the term lol) so whenever I take a small break of few hrs I'm all pumped up and ready to do shit. But before all that, I'd just watch some motivational videos or any kind of videos about the specific area I am interested in, might sound cheesy but ye, other people's achievements and just daydream about all the nice stuff that could happen if you work towards a certain goal. Look at the endgame, and remember that being un-motivated is only preventing YOU from achieving certain desired goals. Want more money, more stability and overall more knowlege about the coding that you so passionately (used to, atleast) do? Then go for it. Gym? If there's nothing physically stopping you from going there you should be furious about not going. Be mad at yourself, you broke your OWN "rule" of going to gym, and who are you at the end if you can't even abide by your own rules. Your body is a temple, it's basically all you've got - treat it like a fuckin temple. Think about all the babes that will be drooling when they see you on the beach (and some occasional boys). Think about all the babes that WONT be drooling if you stop going to gym, and instead will ride someone elses cock. Showering? Idk, if I don't shower for 24+ hrs I can't function properly so there's not much I can tell you about that. Might just be a phase, but you might be losing interested in the areas of life you're into right now. Try switching something up, trying something new, new investment, new project, new hobby, new activity. Heck, even new people (Not that you should abandon your old friends lol). 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lemons Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Do something different. Sounds like you aren't doing a lot of things for fun, just money/school/because you have to. Go out and have some fun, a little R&R never hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sikkunt Aaron Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 go get some pussy and report back 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWind Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 I've sometimes felt the same way and wound up spending a month or two doing very little and even screwed up some of my schooling. I found that spending more time hanging out with friends and trying to participate in sports got me to change my "bad" habits and routines. Being lazy or unmotivated is a state of mind and the only way to change that is to find enjoyment in those activities you have started to slack in or to move on and find something new that interests you. Just go to the gym, not to make up for the missed day, but because you want to! Go out and meet some new people. Staying inside and keeping to yourself is one of the worst things you can do. It is one of the few things that commonly leads to depression. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeyImJamie Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Take up a new skill. I'm re-starting MMA soon as since I stopped Thai boxing while coming to Uni my motivation levels dropped just like yours and even though it's only a few hours a week, it's a perk up that transfers to the rest of the day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M I S T Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 (edited) Meanwhile the time it took to log in and motivate yourself to vent to osbot with a long message the dishwasher could’ve been emptied. kapppaaaaaa Edited September 30, 2017 by M I S T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runnwith Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Aspire to have the ultimate script like Jslayer. But seriously, sometimes you have to envision your self and what you want for your future. The hard work and the frustration is part of the journey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeyImJamie Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Just now, Runnwith said: Aspire to have the ultimate script like Jslayer. But seriously, sometimes you have to envision your self and what you want for your future. The hard work and the frustration is part of the journey. Fk u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apaec Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Join a Club or learn something new! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeonAsura Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 Always envision the future you and what could be if you accomplish things now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runnwith Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 3 hours ago, HeyImJamie said: Fk u Ooooh daddy ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Undefeated Posted September 30, 2017 Author Share Posted September 30, 2017 4 hours ago, HeyImJamie said: Fk u Your thread is archived for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
