Holy shit you sound like a 45 year old woman beginning menopause.
First of all, who gives a fuck if you're only friends. Girls know girls, who know girls, who know girls, etc. It's like a never ending cycle of premium vagina. Second, if you're 22 and still worried about "going in for the kiss", you should switch from tampons to pads since that's how much of a bitch you are. Lastly, always remember women are just a walking pair of knockers so you shouldn't ever be stressing over them.
Like my papa always told me; men are just young, dumb and full of cum.