Gotcha. Also, may I suggest https://www.reddit.com/r/buildapc/
Better expertise than most of us on here, although I hope was at least able to give another opinion. And..as for Intel>AMD gaming..are you not using this for workstation purposes as well with all that? Ryzen 7 series would be better for you -- you might lose like what, 2-3 fps at most on certain titles (and AMD outperforms Intel in several games as well, like my favorite Civ games for one). I'd rather sacrifice that miniscule 2-3 FPS on ultra settings from 121 to like 119 FPS while having a CPU with WAY more threads and CPU horsepower for workstation purposes (or like bot farming) which I assume you'll be using it for with all that RAM
Wait, you said server sorry for not catching that. Either way, what I say still makes sense for that purpose.