Dbuffed

[Aguero]

Hello I am really confused on where to start. I'm really feeling powerless as this man/woman doesn't understand anything I say and he himself said he doesn't read/care. 

I did two so called things wrong privately (actually did one thing wrong). The first issue happened a few days ago when I sent him a customers list and said if he can do it and for how much? He asked is it for an order? I said why does that matter to him- as an order is an order. He said I'm breaking the rules by outsourcing information. My understanding of outsourcing is sending information like passwords and usernames. Correct me if I'm wrong. Which I did not. He assumed if he had accepted I would have done so as I didn't tell the customer that I sent that list which means I will send the username and pw without customers consent? This is my view, I would have obviously told the customer I'm sending his information once I am sure I can find someone to do so if not I would have done it myself. So this iswhere I think I did nothing wrong but do correct me if I'm wrong and please tell me so I can understand. 

Secondly the issue that happened today is what I know I went wrong. I sniped one of his customers discord and asked if he still needs service. Yes I know now its wrong as I thought of it as simply browsing through the threads for people needing service and I thought ppl do that already. But I was wrong and I accepted that from the beginning (of the arguement between me and dbuffed) but dbuffed response was rather really unprofessional he told the customer to tell me to fuck off and started the arguement in public chat instead of simply telling me once in private which he did after I told him publically. He admitted he never read any of my responses because its "horse shit" and kept bringing invalid points which I answered if he actually read and understood what I said. The only valid point he had was that I told him a mate sent the dc instead of me doing it(I wasn't justifying the action of sniping) 

These two little arguments really have no reason to be here but I decided to do it here as dbuffed threatened me if I didn't apologise he would do it here and hope  I get a twc and told me gl getting services. 

I refused to apologise to him as I felt rather negative from his approach however in no way shape of form am I saying what I did was right. Just one final thing to mention throughout our arguement I said lol, lmao etc as a way of saying wtf or laughing at how he's nor understanding what I'm saying and just bringing points in as if I had not answered it before. Reason why I'm mentioning this is because he twisted it all saying I'm not taking it seriously insinuating that I'll do it again. He seems rather annoyed at the fact that I talk to him like anyone else I would speak to as if he was the owner. 

The whole point of this is because I want him to approach things more nicely or atleast professionally as one simple dm saying don't do this would be enough rather than creating a whole arguement and threatening to get me a twc. I also want him to treat people Below him better as he never read nor tried to understand anything I said and spoke as if he is the owner here. 

If I am wrong about anything I will accept it so do tell me. 

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Hi please post your response here: 

https://osbot.org/forum/topic/149576-something-to-help-this-person-understand/

[Chris]

Question 1) Was all of this talk done on the forums or discord? and if it was discord, was it done on the official OSBot discord?

 

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22 minutes ago, Aguero said:

Hello I am really confused on where to start. I'm really feeling powerless as this man/woman doesn't understand anything I say and he himself said he doesn't read/care. 

I did two so called things wrong privately (actually did one thing wrong). The first issue happened a few days ago when I sent him a customers list and said if he can do it and for how much? He asked is it for an order? I said why does that matter to him- as an order is an order. He said I'm breaking the rules by outsourcing information. My understanding of outsourcing is sending information like passwords and usernames. Correct me if I'm wrong. Which I did not. He assumed if he had accepted I would have done so as I didn't tell the customer that I sent that list which means I will send the username and pw without customers consent? This is my view, I would have obviously told the customer I'm sending his information once I am sure I can find someone to do so if not I would have done it myself. So this iswhere I think I did nothing wrong but do correct me if I'm wrong and please tell me so I can understand. 

If you are outsourcing orders then yes it would be against the rules. It must be done by YOU(or your worker) if you take the order. You can speak to Maldesto for more information.

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Secondly the issue that happened today is what I know I went wrong. I sniped one of his customers discord and asked if he still needs service. Yes I know now its wrong as I thought of it as simply browsing through the threads for people needing service and I thought ppl do that already. But I was wrong and I accepted that from the beginning (of the arguement between me and dbuffed) but dbuffed response was rather really unprofessional he told the customer to tell me to fuck off and started the arguement in public chat instead of simply telling me once in private which he did after I told him publically. He admitted he never read any of my responses because its "horse shit" and kept bringing invalid points which I answered if he actually read and understood what I said. The only valid point he had was that I told him a mate sent the dc instead of me doing it(I wasn't justifying the action of sniping) 

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These two little arguments really have no reason to be here but I decided to do it here as dbuffed threatened me if I didn't apologise he would do it here and hope  I get a twc and told me gl getting services. 

This is not against the OSBot rules but shows Dbuffed's true character by telling people to harrass another user. Simply block him if this was done through personal discord messages. But let us know if this is a different case (see question 1).

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I refused to apologise to him as I felt rather negative from his approach however in no way shape of form am I saying what I did was right. Just one final thing to mention throughout our arguement I said lol, lmao etc as a way of saying wtf or laughing at how he's nor understanding what I'm saying and just bringing points in as if I had not answered it before. Reason why I'm mentioning this is because he twisted it all saying I'm not taking it seriously insinuating that I'll do it again. He seems rather annoyed at the fact that I talk to him like anyone else I would speak to as if he was the owner. 

Again you don't have to. Simply ignore him and his "pals".

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The whole point of this is because I want him to approach things more nicely or atleast professionally as one simple dm saying don't do this would be enough rather than creating a whole arguement and threatening to get me a twc. I also want him to treat people Below him better as he never read nor tried to understand anything I said and spoke as if he is the owner here. 

If I am wrong about anything I will accept it so do tell me. 

Simply review old drama he has been in. This is nothing new and a block has worked nicely for me. 

 

 

 

Please review everything and provide a response below. I will allow 1 hour for any responses then simply close if there is no proper evidence of harrassment on the forums or official discord OR time runs out.