She is not that shy. The common excuses I hear is - Im tired, got a headache, period. 

 

I managed to cycle a period.. cycle - RIP to me.

 

Period to period - I got the excuse im on period. Next month 'wtf im on period what you want me to do' 

 

I tried ask weekly, i tried initiating weekly, I tried not asking at all, I tried being romantic without expecting 

 

Same result. 

 

Pleasuring her as in what way emotionally? I have. Physically? I can barely touch her without her saying Its not happening or you wont get some or what you want now. The excuses pour out. Honestly if she was as needy sex wise. I would go down on her everyday if thats what she needs. She just doesn't work pleasure wise. 

 

You say shit got fucked up - was it because of this same issue Im having?

 

Ya, but she got bossy and extremely jealous. That was the main reason.

 

Grills ;)

Sounds like you need a new girlfriend, and some self-respect. Really.

You are not sexually compatible. It's important to have a base level of compatibility, and her libido is much, much lower than your own. Sex builds intimacy and respect that are foundational for a healthy relationship. Do not feel guilty.

 

Leave her.

 

 

 

dawg, not gonna lie if she doesn't want sex then she is either cheating on you or a boring gf.