Mustikurupt Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 (edited) This is the second one i went out on with the same girl. All went well, played some pool, and had some food. Only thing is in the end, i took a risk and went for a kiss and got the cheek. I was worried about wasting my opportunity so i had better do it, it was a waste of time anyway. I didn't like her much, only thing good about her was her green eyes and that she was into the hip-hop scene/clothing. And that she approached me first. And that she had a nose ring right in between her nose like a bull and she told me guys made fun of her and called her a dog on a leash etc so i felt bad her for. And that she even shaved her head like Amber Rose (or atleast tried to) and wore a wig and snapback sometimes. So afterwards, when i sent a text apologizing and saying i would like to see her again, she replies with ''i would like that too but as friends'' i knew that was my doom, and it was the first time ever this had happened to me in my 22 years on this earth. I replied with a harsh ''I liked you for your personality, so don't try to tell me this stuff, i'm not into being friends with you, sorry. If you got something important to tell me, do it otherwise don't message me anything''. Basically i wasn't gonna accept this bullshit, i already know a girl that i'm ''friends'' with because she's fucking annoying as hell and looks like a dude i went to class with, i don't see her at all. But anyway, i feel both happy and pissed off at the same time, because i only want to be with girls for one thing, generally. I'm not an asshole in real life, i treat people good but i have learned over time to be cautious when it comes to dating, i rarely put my guard down and show emotion, it'll only bite me in the ass afterwards. So did i do the right thing? Should i have accepted her friendship? I'll forget about her in the morning, just like everything else that has gone to shits for me over the years. Edited August 21, 2014 by Mustikurupt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irwtonrs1 Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 swag Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mustikurupt Posted August 21, 2014 Author Share Posted August 21, 2014 swag i like your sig ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Molly Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 You should have been accepting of her wanting to just be friends. Ask her to hang out, get her drunk, fuck her and never call her again. gg rekt 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mustikurupt Posted August 21, 2014 Author Share Posted August 21, 2014 You should have been accepting of her wanting to just be friends. Ask her to hang out, get her drunk, fuck her and never call her again. gg rekt Meh she doesn't drink, great idea though 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Extreme Scripts Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Sorry to hear things didn't go the way you wanted them to. I am personally in a relationship for nearly 2 years now and I'm having the best time of my life (par the few arguments every few months) but everything starts off as a seed. You can't expect too much at first, my gf and I were friends for nearly 3 months before we started dating and that's when I went for it after I knew she was interested. I think it's always good to start with something small and build on it, at the end of the day good things come to those who wait as cliche as it sounds 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pecman Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 You should have been accepting of her wanting to just be friends. Ask her to hang out, get her drunk, fuck her and never call her again. gg rekt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swizzbeat Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 (edited) Holy shit you sound like a 45 year old woman beginning menopause. First of all, who gives a fuck if you're only friends. Girls know girls, who know girls, who know girls, etc. It's like a never ending cycle of premium vagina. Second, if you're 22 and still worried about "going in for the kiss", you should switch from tampons to pads since that's how much of a bitch you are. Lastly, always remember women are just a walking pair of knockers so you shouldn't ever be stressing over them. Like my papa always told me; men are just young, dumb and full of cum. Edited August 21, 2014 by Swizzbeat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mustikurupt Posted August 21, 2014 Author Share Posted August 21, 2014 (edited) Holy shit you sound like a 45 year old woman beginning menopause. First of all, who gives a fuck if you're only friends. Girls know girls, who know girls, who know girls, etc. It's like a never ending cycle of premium vagina. Second, if you're 22 and still worried about "going in for the kiss", you should switch from tampons to pads since that's how much of a bitch you are. Lastly, always remember women are just a walking pair of knockers so you shouldn't ever be stressing over them. Like my papa always told me; men are just young, dumb and full of cum. lol i wasn't afraid of the actual kiss, i was just worried that if i didn't do it now, then it might have been too late. We hear it all the time, guys too slow to make a move get friendzoned, that's exactly what was on my thoughts. I could have done it on the first date but i felt like a creep so i waited to do it on the second. All her friends are 30 and over, some with kids. She's 24. I like the idea but it wouldn't work due to her not having those kind of friends. My plan initially two months ago was to just use her for sex until January/February and then block her and never talk to her again, and things changed. Atleast i didn't wind up wasting too much of my money on her, it was only 21 $ that i blew overall so i'm happy with those numbers. Edited August 21, 2014 by Mustikurupt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winnerowns Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Holy shit you sound like a 45 year old woman beginning menopause. First of all, who gives a fuck if you're only friends. Girls know girls, who know girls, who know girls, etc. It's like a never ending cycle of premium vagina. Second, if you're 22 and still worried about "going in for the kiss", you should switch from tampons to pads since that's how much of a bitch you are. Lastly, always remember women are just a walking pair of knockers so you shouldn't ever be stressing over them. Like my papa always told me; men are just young, dumb and full of cum. you're a dick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swizzbeat Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 lol i wasn't afraid of the actual kiss, i was just worried that if i didn't do it now, then it might have been too late. We hear it all the time, guys too slow to make a move get friendzoned, that's exactly what was on my thoughts. I could have done it on the first date but i felt like a creep so i waited to do it on the second. All her friends are 30 and over, some with kids. She's 24. I like the idea but it wouldn't work due to her not having those kind of friends. My plan initially two months ago was to just use her for sex until January/Februari and then block her and never talk to her again, and things changed. Atleast i didn't wind up wasting too much of my money on her, it was only 21 $ that i blew overall so i'm happy with those numbers. Wow, this girl sounds like a deadzone then. I can't even legally drink in the US yet so I'm not sure how it is once you get out of college but from the sound of it it's rough you're a dick anal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fantabulous Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Rape her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mustikurupt Posted August 21, 2014 Author Share Posted August 21, 2014 Rape her lol i would probably climb through her window at night time and do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolaids Posted August 22, 2014 Share Posted August 22, 2014 yo dude, no matter what ever shit happens, no matter what you do, just remember ; no regrets. recently this year shit happened, and one of my friends helped me a shitload by saying ; dont give a fuck to whatever anyone else says, do what you want. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...