Piggybacking on what @Juggles has mentioned because I feel he has some very solid points, I also haven't experienced much toxicity during my short time here at OSBot. I may not have a group chat like him but throughout my time here, I quickly learned that nothing would be spoonfed to me and if I wanted to improve my knowledge I had to put some effort into things myself.
I see what you mean about the toxicity though, when I browse through threads I most definetly see other people expressing their hostilities towards each other as low-key as possible but honestly the way I see it, if you do your thing and do it right without provoking others intentionally you should be fine. When I need help with things such as gold farming (because I am by no means a professional like juggles and other big names out there) I make sure to provide evidence and a list of information that I do gather to the person I am asking so that they SEE I am putting in effort but I am just stuck on something.
Just like juggles as mentioned as well, some people have tried to throw me off track and as a result I just stopped communicating with them because if it happens ones it will most likely happen again. All in all I personally feel like you should just do you. People with all sorts of intentions, good and bad, will cross paths with you and especially with this being the type of forums this is... unfortunately there will be a lot of bad apples. But the same can be said with great people! Just keep on trucking my man and you'll get over the shitty people