hey kontonamn,
when providing discord, provide you user-id as well. go to settings > advanced > turn developor mode on
then go to any conversation your part of and right click your own icon > most bottom option should then be copy user-id
User-id is something than can and will NOT be changed, even when changing names. adding the user-id makes sure your dont get scammed by an impersonator (when someone is adding you from OSBot, ask for there ID as well even tho most main users already provide it for the same reason) and that the guy that contacts you is really contacting you. not someone with the same name
take care on your search broski