Now I'm a Buddhist & I've been with my Muslim girlfriend for almost a year and a half.

Her parents JUST found out about us.

We're considering eloping because she holds no value over her religion & neither do I.

My parents are accepting of her religion, who she is and grows to love her more and more.

Her parents hate me because I'm Buddhist and because I'm not of the race.

 

But here's the question that's up for controversial discussion..

 

Would Muslim parents be better off with their daughter being a lesbian or marrying a man of another religion?

 

 

I'm having a troubling time understanding the culture.

She's Pakistani & I'm Cambodian, if that's anything of help to you.

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by Fuhrer

Thats typically how middle easterners think. I have a couple of Muslim friends and they will basically shun you from their community if you date outside race/religion. He is from a more of a strict religious town (can't remember the name), but he said it is not tolerated to any extent or exception.

just stick it in her ear job done

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

Thats typically how middle easterners think. I have a couple of Muslim friends and they will basically shun you from their community if you date outside race/religion. He is from a more of a strict religious town (can't remember the name), but he said it is not tolerated to any extent or exception.

Believe me I can see that. She's getting brutally upset over this.

I don't want to end our relationship because we're lovers & have been through much together.

She's not overly religious herself, but her mother is.

I would assume her father is too.

I'm not understanding why.

I want to understand, they're completely unjustifiable towards us. They are unreasonable.

I don't see why.

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

I would love to!

Her parents are callously intervening.

They're using an isolation technique.

Which I don't necessarily think is gonna work..

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

 

 

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

I don't need crap on this.

This is a serious thing. I'm having a serious problem.

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

 

 

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

It won't work out unless you convert yourself to islam. Don't break the family apart and have her run away. That won't do any good. You need to either convert or just break up with her.

sorry i though you was trolling

Running away and getting marriage will just more problems, it's best to leave her, if you really love her you'll let her have your choices.

Converting for the sake of loving someone isn't a good thing to do, it's like you're just going to neglect Islam.

If you really do love her you just learn about Islam, then maybe in a few years you can see her.

 

 

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

 

I'm jumping through hoops to end us. I'm losing my mind over this because of a religious problem.

Believe you me, we don't even have to get married. I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me.

They've got 3 striving sons & won't let their daughter go.

I'm about to say fuck you to her father because this is stupid shit.

Love is love, devout towards religion or not.

She says this is stupid, she's not as inherently as religious as them.

I want her to live a life where she is with her family, though we wanted a family of our own.

I respect a religion for whom takes it in, but I don't respect it for ending my relationship.

I don't respect it because it doesn't approve of love.

Because if a man of that religion can fucking marry anyone else and convert them, and a woman can't fucking marry a man.

Fuck that shit. Fuck it all.

This is one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever fucking heard & it changes my views extremely.

 

Excuse me if I'm rude but I'm hurt, ruining things that should be kept.

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by Fuhrer

screw religion if its meant to be then do it