screw religion if its meant to be then do it

Stop posting fucking useless comments.

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by Khanz

im not im just stating my view sorry if it offends you 

im not im just stating my view sorry if it offends you 

Please stop, I'm begging you.

This is a serious thing..

all religion causes is hate towards other relgion,

 

we have that problem where asians cant marry go with whites there familys hate it

all religion causes is hate towards other relgion,

 

we have that problem where asians cant marry go with whites there familys hate it

Well preach that.

 

Thats typically how middle easterners think. I have a couple of Muslim friends and they will basically shun you from their community if you date outside race/religion. He is from a more of a strict religious town (can't remember the name), but he said it is not tolerated to any extent or exception.

Believe me I can see that. She's getting brutally upset over this.

I don't want to end our relationship because we're lovers & have been through much together.

She's not overly religious herself, but her mother is.

I would assume her father is too.

I'm not understanding why.

I want to understand, they're completely unjustifiable towards us. They are unreasonable.

I don't see why.

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

I would love to!

Her parents are callously intervening.

They're using an isolation technique.

Which I don't necessarily think is gonna work..

 

Try and bring them to the realization of the situation, try and bring them to your point of view on things and hope they understand. And also remind them that we are humans, we are not perfect, we do not truly know what religion is right or if any of them are, but what we do have is each other to experience our time on earth with

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by LifezHatred

 

 

Thats typically how middle easterners think. I have a couple of Muslim friends and they will basically shun you from their community if you date outside race/religion. He is from a more of a strict religious town (can't remember the name), but he said it is not tolerated to any extent or exception.

Believe me I can see that. She's getting brutally upset over this.

I don't want to end our relationship because we're lovers & have been through much together.

She's not overly religious herself, but her mother is.

I would assume her father is too.

I'm not understanding why.

I want to understand, they're completely unjustifiable towards us. They are unreasonable.

I don't see why.

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

I would love to!

Her parents are callously intervening.

They're using an isolation technique.

Which I don't necessarily think is gonna work..

 

Try and bring them to the realization of the situation, try and bring them to your point of view on things and hope they understand. And also remind them that we are humans, we are not perfect, we do not truly know what religion is right or if any of them are, but what we do have is each other to experience our time on earth with

 

 

I've tried.

They're hardcore religious people.

I've tried mending my ways with them.

I've tried everything.

 Believe me. It's the first time I've cried in front of a man that wasn't my father.

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

I'm jumping through hoops to end us. I'm losing my mind over this because of a religious problem.

Believe you me, we don't even have to get married. I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me.

They've got 3 striving sons & won't let their daughter go.

I'm about to say fuck you to her father because this is stupid shit.

Love is love, devout towards religion or not.

She says this is stupid, she's not as inherently as religious as them.

I want her to live a life where she is with her family, though we wanted a family of our own.

I respect a religion for whom takes it in, but I don't respect it for ending my relationship.

I don't respect it because it doesn't approve of love.

Because if a man of that religion can fucking marry anyone else and convert them, and a woman can't fucking marry a man.

Fuck that shit. Fuck it all.

This is one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever fucking heard & it changes my views extremely.

Excuse me if I'm rude but I'm hurt, ruining things that should be kept.

I understand you're angry, I am man who takes criticism and looks at it at both sides. What I'm really doing is protecting her family because there isn't much going on from your side.

With her parents beliefs love is not just love it has be taken serious and like a game

Under Islamic laws two unmarried people cannot be together unless there is a male/maharam present (basically a brother father uncle or something who is already married.)

Religion is apart of love. Islam is a complete way of life and for you two to be together Islam has to be there.

What you're saying is religion isn't everything and it doesn't include love.

I think maybe her parents are treating her at home too harsh and this is forcing her to change her views, or the parents haven't raised her the most Islamic way.

im not im just stating my view sorry if it offends you

You're pointing a useless argument with no backing at least put some effort into your argument.

Thats typically how middle easterners think. I have a couple of Muslim friends and they will basically shun you from their community if you date outside race/religion. He is from a more of a strict religious town (can't remember the name), but he said it is not tolerated to any extent or exception.

Believe me I can see that. She's getting brutally upset over this.

I don't want to end our relationship because we're lovers & have been through much together.

She's not overly religious herself, but her mother is.

I would assume her father is too.

I'm not understanding why.

I want to understand, they're completely unjustifiable towards us. They are unreasonable.

I don't see why.

Im atheist my Girlfriend is Roman Catholic we respect eachothers views and dont care what other people think. Do what makes you happy.

I would love to!

Her parents are callously intervening.

They're using an isolation technique.

Which I don't necessarily think is gonna work..

Try and bring them to the realization of the situation, try and bring them to your point of view on things and hope they understand. And also remind them that we are humans, we are not perfect, we do not truly know what religion is right or if any of them are, but what we do have is each other to experience our time on earth with

I've tried.

They're hardcore religious people.

I've tried mending my ways with them.

I've tried everything.

Believe me. It's the first time I've cried in front of a man that wasn't my father.

Her parents won't give in to the fact it's wise to marry a non muslim, her family will get a lot of bad looks it'll look bad on her.

Basically her parents are protecting her and themselves.

If you realise this you should revert to Islam, as this is the only way I see things moving on and concert not for the girl but for the pleasure of Allah (God)

Im not insulting your religion i just said i disagree with religion full stop 

 

 

 

 

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

I'm jumping through hoops to end us. I'm losing my mind over this because of a religious problem.

Believe you me, we don't even have to get married. I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me.

They've got 3 striving sons & won't let their daughter go.

I'm about to say fuck you to her father because this is stupid shit.

Love is love, devout towards religion or not.

She says this is stupid, she's not as inherently as religious as them.

I want her to live a life where she is with her family, though we wanted a family of our own.

I respect a religion for whom takes it in, but I don't respect it for ending my relationship.

I don't respect it because it doesn't approve of love.

Because if a man of that religion can fucking marry anyone else and convert them, and a woman can't fucking marry a man.

Fuck that shit. Fuck it all.

This is one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever fucking heard & it changes my views extremely.

Excuse me if I'm rude but I'm hurt, ruining things that should be kept.

I understand you're angry, I am man who takes criticism and looks at it at both sides. What I'm really doing is protecting her family because there isn't much going on from your side.

With her parents beliefs love is not just love it has be taken serious and like a game

Under Islamic laws two unmarried people cannot be together unless there is a male/maharam present (basically a brother father uncle or something who is already married.)

Religion is apart of love. Islam is a complete way of life and for you two to be together Islam has to be there.

What you're saying is religion isn't everything and it doesn't include love.

I think maybe her parents are treating her at home too harsh and this is forcing her to change her views, or the parents haven't raised her the most Islamic way.

 

 

She hasn't been bred up to date towards her religion.

She's not like that.

She's not anywhere near it.

 

As for the second statement,

If her cousins can date outside of the race/religion why can't she.

This is too much.

It's just it's stupid.

 

im not im just stating my view sorry if it offends you

You're pointing a useless argument with no backing at least put some effort into your argument.

 

Idk my point of view on religion is that it brings a tyrant like side to people, they aren't acceptance of other peoples views or beliefs.

They believe so much in their religion being right they forget that they truly don't know and it hurts people who get caught into their beliefs

I say let people believe what they want, but don't force your beliefs upon them

 

 

 

 

 

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

I'm jumping through hoops to end us. I'm losing my mind over this because of a religious problem.

Believe you me, we don't even have to get married. I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me.

They've got 3 striving sons & won't let their daughter go.

I'm about to say fuck you to her father because this is stupid shit.

Love is love, devout towards religion or not.

She says this is stupid, she's not as inherently as religious as them.

I want her to live a life where she is with her family, though we wanted a family of our own.

I respect a religion for whom takes it in, but I don't respect it for ending my relationship.

I don't respect it because it doesn't approve of love.

Because if a man of that religion can fucking marry anyone else and convert them, and a woman can't fucking marry a man.

Fuck that shit. Fuck it all.

This is one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever fucking heard & it changes my views extremely.

Excuse me if I'm rude but I'm hurt, ruining things that should be kept.

I understand you're angry, I am man who takes criticism and looks at it at both sides. What I'm really doing is protecting her family because there isn't much going on from your side.

With her parents beliefs love is not just love it has be taken serious and like a game

Under Islamic laws two unmarried people cannot be together unless there is a male/maharam present (basically a brother father uncle or something who is already married.)

Religion is apart of love. Islam is a complete way of life and for you two to be together Islam has to be there.

What you're saying is religion isn't everything and it doesn't include love.

I think maybe her parents are treating her at home too harsh and this is forcing her to change her views, or the parents haven't raised her the most Islamic way.

 

 

She hasn't been bred up to date towards her religion.

She's not like that.

She's not anywhere near it.

 

As for the second statement,

If her cousins can date outside of the race/religion why can't she.

This is too much.

It's just it's stupid.

 

Don't get too stressed out over it, her parents want control over a matter that's not theirs, just try and find any way around it and to keep you and your gf's mind off it. They can only keep you from it for so long, just remember if you both truly want to be together do whatever you can to make that happen

Honestly i'm sure if there was a god, i'm sure it would be understanding of who we are what we felt and why we did what we did

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by LifezHatred

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's going to end bad TRUST ME.

Listen I would just end it, it's going to cause a lot of problems for her family and her side, her parents will be looked down upon by the rest of the community.

To answer your second question neither being a homosexual is strictly forbidden

The purpose of marriage is to to strengthen the religion of both which in this case is neglecting on the beliefs of Islam.

I love her.. What am I supposed to do..

I know I'm trying..

She just doesn't want it to happen..

I realized I don't want that to happen either..

You love her I know, but it's too much of a RISK it can RUIN her.

In her case if she forgets you she'll find someone better and more pious.

I'm jumping through hoops to end us. I'm losing my mind over this because of a religious problem.

Believe you me, we don't even have to get married. I just want to be with her and she wants to be with me.

They've got 3 striving sons & won't let their daughter go.

I'm about to say fuck you to her father because this is stupid shit.

Love is love, devout towards religion or not.

She says this is stupid, she's not as inherently as religious as them.

I want her to live a life where she is with her family, though we wanted a family of our own.

I respect a religion for whom takes it in, but I don't respect it for ending my relationship.

I don't respect it because it doesn't approve of love.

Because if a man of that religion can fucking marry anyone else and convert them, and a woman can't fucking marry a man.

Fuck that shit. Fuck it all.

This is one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever fucking heard & it changes my views extremely.

Excuse me if I'm rude but I'm hurt, ruining things that should be kept.

I understand you're angry, I am man who takes criticism and looks at it at both sides. What I'm really doing is protecting her family because there isn't much going on from your side.

With her parents beliefs love is not just love it has be taken serious and like a game

Under Islamic laws two unmarried people cannot be together unless there is a male/maharam present (basically a brother father uncle or something who is already married.)

Religion is apart of love. Islam is a complete way of life and for you two to be together Islam has to be there.

What you're saying is religion isn't everything and it doesn't include love.

I think maybe her parents are treating her at home too harsh and this is forcing her to change her views, or the parents haven't raised her the most Islamic way.

 

 

She hasn't been bred up to date towards her religion.

She's not like that.

She's not anywhere near it.

 

As for the second statement,

If her cousins can date outside of the race/religion why can't she.

This is too much.

It's just it's stupid.

 

Don't get too stressed out over it, her parents want control over a matter that's not theirs, just try and find any way around it and to keep you and your gf's mind off it. They can only keep you from it for so long, just remember if you both truly want to be together do whatever you can to make that happen

 

 

I respect her parents to the utmost of my ability.

I hate her parents for not trying to understand.

I hate her parents because they're not modernized.

I hate her parents because they've disrespected me and my family, my culture, and my religion.

I hate her parents because they are unreasonable.

I am a man of family.

I am a man of respect.

I am a man of good deeds.

I am a scholar.

What more can they want, a religious son-in-law?

They can go fuck themselves.

She wants to be with me, she won't let me end the relationship.

I don't want to end it, I'm being convinced to.

Her father wants to play tough guy?

Go ahead, tempt me.

6 years in the marines didn't do me dirty old fucker.

Edited October 7, 201312 yr by Fuhrer